CampaignBreak the stigma
Men can leave.
Abuse from a partner is not limited by gender or orientation. Neither is the right to be safe.
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Topic
Relationships
When a relationship ended, changed, or stopped feeling safe. What to look for, and what to do next.
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CourseBeing written
Coming back to people
The friendships that went quiet. Why people stopped asking. Giving people a job. What to say when someone asks how you are and you have nothing.
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LibraryScript
How to tell someone you trust
If you want one person to know, how to start, and how much to say.
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LibraryScript
When someone tells you what happened to them
How to respond so they are glad they told you.
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CourseBeing written
Grief without a funeral
Breakups, estrangement, a life that did not happen, a person who is alive but gone. The losses nobody marks, and how to carry them.
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LibraryPractical guide
When trauma affects your relationship
How what happened to you can show up between you and a partner, and how to talk about it.
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CourseBeing written
After the relationship
Rebuilding after a relationship ends, including one that was controlling or unsafe. Practical, honest, and written for men as well as everyone else.
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LibraryHeavy subject
When a pregnancy ends
Miscarriage, stillbirth and loss in pregnancy, including for partners.
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LibraryField note
Grief after a breakup
When the person is still alive but the life you had together is gone.
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LibraryChecklist
What a healthy relationship looks like
A plain checklist for when you are not sure what normal is.
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LibraryScript
How to start a hard conversation with a partner
Words for when something needs saying and you do not know how to begin.
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LibraryExplainer
When you shut down in arguments
Going silent, walking away, feeling nothing. Why it happens and what helps.
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LibraryExplainer
Jealousy: when it is normal and when it is control
The difference between a feeling and a rule.
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LibraryPractical guide
When your partner has been through trauma
How to support someone without losing yourself.
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LibraryPractical guide
Fathers and their children after separation
Staying close to your kids when the family changes.
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LibraryPractical guide
Co parenting with someone you cannot stand
Keeping it about the children when the relationship is over.
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LibraryScript
Telling a partner about your past
Whether, when and how to share what happened to you.
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LibraryField note
Friendship for men
Why many men have fewer close friends than they want, and how to change it.
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LibraryField note
Coming out to a partner
When you realise something about your identity while in a relationship.
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LibraryPractical guide
When your partner drinks too much
Living with someone whose drinking is affecting you.
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LibraryField note
When a relationship ends and you did not see it coming
Shock, questions, and getting through the first weeks.
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LibraryExplainer
Trust after betrayal
Whether and how trust can be rebuilt after an affair or a serious breach.
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LibraryField note
Caring for a partner who is ill
Love, duty and exhaustion when you become a carer.
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LibraryChecklist
When your relationship affects your mental health
Signs it is taking more than it gives.
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LibraryField note
Relationships after prison or service
Reconnecting with a partner and family after long time apart.
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LibraryField note
If you are worried about your own behaviour
When you are the one causing harm, and want to change.
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LibraryPractical guide
Supporting a friend who is being abused
How to help without making it more dangerous.
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LibraryPractical guide
Helping a friend with their mental health
What to say and how to stay connected.
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LibraryPractical guide
When the abuse comes from a partner and you are a man
Coercive control, violence and threats do not care about gender. What it can look like, and what to do.
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LibraryField note
Grieving someone who is still alive
Estrangement, breakups, a parent who changed. Losses nobody holds a funeral for.
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LibraryField note
Your friends want to help and have no idea how
Giving people a job, and the exact words for it.
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LibraryField note
What to say when someone asks how you are doing
Four answers for four situations, including the one where you do not want to talk.
