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Dating safely as an LGBTQ+ person

Practical steps when meeting people online.

Dating apps are a big part of LGBTQ+ life. Most dates are fine, but it pays to be careful.

Before meeting

  • Video chat first if you can
  • Tell a friend where you are going
  • Meet in a public place

Red flags

  • Refusing to video chat
  • Pressuring you to meet in private quickly
  • Asking for money

In some places

Where being LGBTQ+ is criminalised or dangerous, people may be targeted through apps. Be extra careful and use privacy features.

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