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Men can be victims.
Sexual and intimate partner violence against men is common, underreported, and too often met with disbelief.
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For the men around him
For a friend, brother, son, or colleague of a man who is going through it. What to say, what not to, how to offer something concrete, and how to tell when it has become medical.
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- 4 modules
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- What to say, and what to say instead Task: Send him one message this week that asks for nothing back. Something like: thinking about you, no need to reply. 10 min
- Offer a job, not an open door Task: Pick one job from the list in this module. Offer it to him with a specific day. 8 min
- Side by side Task: Invite him to do something ordinary with you this month. A game, a job, a drive. Do not plan to talk about anything. 8 min
- When it has become medical Task: Save 988 in your phone now, under a name you will remember. 12 min
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