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Reading list

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Every book and paper this practice draws on. No affiliate links. If you want the primary source, you should be able to get it without going through us.

Books

  • Doka, K. J., and Martin, T. L. (2010)Grieving Beyond Gender: Understanding the Ways Men and Women Mourn (revised edition)Routledge
  • Klass, D., Silverman, P. R., and Nickman, S. L. (editors) (1996)Continuing Bonds: New Understandings of GriefTaylor and Francis
  • Martin, T. L., and Doka, K. J. (2000)Men Don't Cry, Women Do: Transcending Gender Stereotypes of GriefBrunner/Mazel
  • Shay, J. (1994)Achilles in Vietnam: Combat Trauma and the Undoing of CharacterAtheneum
  • Siegel, D. J. (1999)The Developing Mind: Toward a Neurobiology of Interpersonal ExperienceGuilford Press

Papers

Where the research is thin, we say so. Research on how men in particular grieve is smaller and less replicated than the general bereavement literature. Every source is reviewed once a year. Last reviewed October 2026.

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