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Break the stigma

Men can be victims.

Sexual and intimate partner violence against men is common, underreported, and too often met with disbelief.

The research

In the United States, about one in four men report experiencing contact sexual violence, physical violence or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime.

Source: Leemis, R. W., Friar, N., Khatiwada, S., Chen, M. S., Kresnow, M., Smith, S. G., Caslin, S., and Basile, K. C. (2022). The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey: 2016/2017 Report on Intimate Partner Violence. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Men should not have to bleed publicly before we believe they hurt.

Being a victim is not a character trait. It is something that was done to you. Men are taught that the word does not belong to them, so many never use it, and never get help. This campaign exists to hand the word back, without forcing anyone to pick it up.

Inside this campaign

  1. Male sexual assault

  2. Domestic violence against men

  3. Childhood abuse

  4. Exploitation and trafficking

  5. LGBTQ+ male survivors

Interviews, video, and shareable graphics are being produced. Every story will be told with consent.

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  • CampaignBreak the stigma

    Men can talk about sexual assault.

    It happens to men and boys. It is never deserved, and physical arousal is not consent.

    Men

  • Start here

    I don't know if what happened counts.

    You do not need a name for it. Answer a few questions, and nothing is stored.

    Trauma

  • CourseBeing written

    After the relationship

    Rebuilding after a relationship ends, including one that was controlling or unsafe. Practical, honest, and written for men as well as everyone else.

    $194 modulesRelationships

  • LibraryHeavy subject

    Sexual abuse in relationships

    Consent still matters when you are together.

    1 minute readDomestic violence

  • ProgramForming now

    Men Don't Have to Disappear

    Male survivor education and support initiative.

    FreeOnlineMen

  • PodcastComing soon

    The Lighthouse Is On

    A Griefyard Works podcast. Long conversations about the things men were taught not to say. Coming soon.

    Men

  • LibraryExplainer

    Freezing was not a choice

    Why so many people could not move, shout or fight back, and why that was the body protecting you.

    1 minute readTrauma

  • StoryShare yours

    Stories from the water.

    Told in writing, on a call, or on the podcast. Nothing is published until you approve the final version, and you can withdraw it at any time.

    Men

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