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ExplainerHousingMenLoneliness1 minute read

Sofa surfing

Staying with friends is homelessness too.

Many people who have lost their homes stay with friends or relatives, moving from place to place.

Why it matters

People who sofa surf are often not counted as homeless and may miss out on help.

Risks

  • Insecurity
  • Exploitation
  • Strain on relationships

Get help

Contact housing services. You may be entitled to support.

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