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Field noteLGBTQ+MenLoneliness1 minute read

LGBTQ+ men and loneliness

Community can be full of people and still feel lonely.

Many gay, bisexual and queer men describe loneliness, even inside the community.

Why

  • Scenes focused on looks, partying or apps
  • Few spaces for friendship rather than dating
  • Losing friends

What helps

  • Groups built around interests: sport, books, hiking
  • Volunteering in community organisations
  • Investing in a few close friendships

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