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Field noteStarting overLonelinessGrief1 minute read

Learning to live alone

After a breakup, bereavement or leaving home.

Living alone for the first time, or again, can be peaceful or painful.

Practical tips

  • Build a daily routine
  • Cook simple meals for one
  • Keep the space tidy enough to feel good

The quiet

Silence can be hard. Radio, podcasts or a pet can help. So can regular contact with people.

Freedom

Living alone can also be a chance to discover what you like.

KEEP EXPLORING

Keep exploring.

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