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Practical guideStarting overLonelinessHousing1 minute read

Starting over in a new country

Settling in when everything is different.

Moving to a new country means learning new systems, a new language, new customs and new ways of making friends.

Practical steps

  • Register for health care
  • Open a bank account
  • Understand housing and work rights
  • Learn local emergency numbers

Emotional side

  • Homesickness
  • Feeling like an outsider
  • Missing family and food

Connection

  • Find community groups from home
  • Join language classes, which are good places to meet people
  • Connect with locals through shared interests

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