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Why you do it this way
Why you have been fixing things, working, and sorting rather than talking. Why that is a recognized pattern, not a failure, and what it does well and badly.
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The second year
Nobody warns you it can be harder. Why the help ends at the funeral and the hard part starts afterwards. Keeping a bond without getting stuck.
For a man a year or more on, who expected it to be easier by now.
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- Why the second year catches peopleSoon
- What you keepSoon
- The dates you know are comingSoon
- When it has not shifted at allSoon
KEEP EXPLORING
Keep exploring.
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Grief does not follow stages
Why the idea of neat stages leaves so many people feeling they are doing it wrong.
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Grieving by doing
If you are fixing, working and sorting instead of talking, that is a recognised way to grieve.
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The first ninety days
What actually has to be handled, in what order, and what can wait. Nothing in it about feelings, which is exactly why it works.
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Carrying it at work
Going back. What to tell people and what you are not obliged to say. Working on four hours of sleep, in a job that requires you to be fine.
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Grief without a body, without a goodbye
When you could not be there, or there was no funeral, or the person was never found.
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When the death was by suicide
A loss that brings its own questions. Some things that are true.
