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Housing after leaving abuse

Finding a safe place to live.

Finding a safe home after abuse is one of the hardest parts of leaving.

Options

  • Refuges and shelters
  • Emergency housing from local authorities
  • Social housing, where people fleeing abuse may be prioritised
  • Private rentals, sometimes with deposit help

Safety in a new home

  • Keep your address private
  • Change locks
  • Check devices for tracking

Get specialist help

Domestic abuse services know local housing options and can advocate for you. See resources.

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