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Practical guideStarting overGriefHousing1 minute read
Clearing out after a loss
Belongings, homes, and when to do it.
Sorting through someone's belongings after they die is one of the most emotional jobs there is.
No rush
Unless there is a tenancy or sale deadline, take your time. Some people need weeks. Some need years.
Ways to approach it
- Do it with someone who knew them
- Start with easy rooms or items
- Make piles: keep, give, donate, recycle
- Keep a few meaningful items
- Take photos of things you cannot keep
Disagreements
Families often argue over belongings. Talk early about what matters to each person.
Feelings
Smells, handwriting and clothes can bring grief back strongly. Take breaks.
