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Field noteLGBTQ+MenMental health1 minute read

Chemsex and support

When sex and drugs become linked.

Chemsex means using certain drugs to have sex, often over long periods. It is most discussed among gay and bisexual men.

Why people do it

  • To feel less shame
  • To feel connected
  • To enhance sex
  • To escape loneliness

Risks

  • Overdose
  • Consent being unclear
  • Sexual health risks
  • Dependence and mental health effects

Support

Specialist services, often run by and for gay and bisexual men, provide non judgemental support.

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