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Practical guideStarting overMen1 minute read

Finding work after a gap

Explaining time away and getting back in.

Gaps in work happen for many reasons: illness, caring, prison, grief, burnout.

Explaining a gap

You do not owe details. Keep it short and positive:

  • "I took time out for family reasons, and I am ready to return."
  • "I was dealing with a health issue that is now managed."

Building confidence

  • Volunteering
  • Short courses
  • Temporary work

Support

Employment services and charities can help with CVs, interviews and confidence.

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