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Practical guideTraumaStarting over1 minute read

After an accident or a violent incident

The first weeks after something sudden and frightening.

A crash, an attack, a fire, a robbery. Sudden events can shake you even if you were not badly hurt.

The first few weeks

It is common to feel:

  • Shaky, tired, jumpy, or unable to concentrate
  • Replaying what happened, or what could have happened
  • Anxious about going back to the place, or doing the same thing again
  • Fine one day and not the next

For many people, these reactions ease over a few weeks.

What helps

  • Rest, eat, and keep some routine
  • Talk about it if you want to, with people who will listen
  • Return gradually to the place or activity, with someone if needed
  • Avoid big decisions for a little while

When to get help

If after a month you are still struggling a lot, or if it is getting worse rather than better, speak to a doctor. Early help works well.

If you were hurt by another person, a victim support service can explain your options. The Resource Finder can help you find one.

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