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What you did and did not do

Guilt, the replayed decision, the thing you should have noticed. Why this is a distinct injury with its own literature, and why the usual reassurance does not touch it.

The most serious course in the set. It is being written with clinical review.

  • 4 modules
  • Transcripts
  • Scholarships planned
  1. The replayed decisionSoon
  2. A different kind of injurySoon
  3. Why reassurance does not landSoon
  4. Who to talk toSoon

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  • Start here

    I don't know if what happened counts.

    You do not need a name for it. Answer a few questions, and nothing is stored.

    Trauma

  • CourseBeing written

    I don't know where to start

    For the moment when everything feels urgent and nothing feels clear. Sort what is happening into what needs doing now, this month, and later.

    Free4 modulesTrauma

  • LibraryExplainer

    What trauma actually means

    Not a word for weak people. A word for what happens when something overwhelms what a person can take in.

    1 minute readTrauma

  • ProgramForming now

    The Anchor Program

    Short term stabilization and planning for what comes next.

    FreeOnline, one to oneTrauma

  • PodcastComing soon

    The Lighthouse Is On

    A Griefyard Works podcast. Long conversations about the things men were taught not to say. Coming soon.

    Men

  • LibraryField note

    When it happened years ago and still feels close

    Time does not always put distance between you and what happened. Why, and what can help.

    1 minute readTrauma

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