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Free sheet, reviewed October 2026

The ask sheet

For asking an institution for something and having it hold. A name, a reference, a date.

Download the PDF 1 page, Five minutes per call, Free, no email
What it is
For asking an institution for something and having it hold. A name, a reference, a date.
Who it is for
A man dealing with a bank, an insurer, an agency, an employer, or a landlord who keeps losing track of what was promised.
What it produces
A written record of every call that means you never have to start again from the beginning.
Time
Five minutes per call

Everything on the sheet is below, so you can use it without opening the PDF. A notebook works just as well.

Before the call

  • Who I am calling
  • What I am asking for, in one sentence
  • Account or case number

Say these

  • Can I take your name?
  • Can you give me a reference number for this call?
  • What happens next, and by when?
  • If I have not heard by then, who do I ask for?

During the call

  • Name of the person
  • Date and time
  • Reference number
  • What they said will happen, and by when

After

  • I will follow up on
  • If it has not happened, I will ask for

Print several. One per call.

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